It’s TIME!!!

It’s time to show the world who you are and what you’re capable of achieving.  The way to do that is to keep your mind disciplined to look for the positives and harness and leverage your imagination to propel you towards becoming who you want to be and cultivating the lifestyle you desire.

If your default is instant gratification aka impatience then it’s time to rewire that vibrational response system by engaging in daily assertions of I am statements that reinforce your ability to be patient, trust the process,  and have faith in the Universe’s ability to orchestrate on your behalf.
It’s time to cultivate a full partnership with God/Universe and demolish the limited partnership and/or silent one. As a matter of fact it’s time to defer/ yield all “how” related strategic planning to your FULL partner and strategic “resource” management.
It’s time to be all you were designed to be…. enter into FULL partnership today with God/Universe.  Cheers! ❤

Assert I AM!

Hicks says “We don’t have what we want because we’re not a match to it.” Einstein says “We can’t solve problems by using the same kind/level of thinking we used when we created them.” Marianne Williamson says “You must learn a new way to think before you can master a new way to be.”

We’ve heard old ways won’t open new doors.  And in order to have something different we must do something different.  That’s what this month’s challenge is about changing our thoughts to have something different. 

Maltz says “Our self image,  strongly held,  essentially determines what we become.” Far too often we overlook the connection between our self image and our results in life.  If we don’t have the essence of what we desire in our lives then who do we need to become to have it? 

Do we need to become confident? Do we need to become savvy, alluring, magnetic,  innovative,  charismatic,  flexible,  positve,  optimistic,  consistent,  determined,  victory minded, courageous,  faithful,  peaceful? 

I AM ASSERTIONS are a powerful tool in helping to chisel,  cultivate,  transform, or enhance our self image.  I will be re-incorporating them into my daily routine.  

We choose who and what we will become by who we identify with with our I AM assertions. Be sure they align with your deepest desires.  Don’t believe me….. remember Muhammed Ali? I am the greatest and so it was unto him.

Secret Chambers of Possibilities

Ideals become dim if we don’t constantly stimulate them by the right mental food.  Our imagination is our secret chamber of possibilities. When we learn to live out of imagination, we unleash our hidden resources,  we stimulate our growth and our power.

Jules de Gaultier says “Imagination is the one weapon in the war against reality.” If we want to get away from,  improve, change, reverse, or transform our present reality,  then we must form the habit of leveraging your imagination.

We must form the habit of mentally living in the state we desire.  If it’s abundance,  mentally we must live in abundance.  Better health?  We must mentally live as strong,  virile, energetic,  healthy individuals.

We must train our imagination to visualize and live in the ideal of what we want; that is we must hold the thought of abundance,  wealth,  health, and/or happiness. Saturate ourselves with it.

Then oppositional thoughts cannot touch you.  They will be neutralized because you cannot hold in your mind two opposite thoughts at the same time,  and whatever thought you hold is a real powerful creative force.

In order to create, to build, we must hold a constructive mental attitude all the time,  that we must keep all negatives, all thoughts of discouragement,  despondency,  of possible failure out of our minds.

We can only produce only that which we concentrate upon,  that which we constantly think of; that only which is dominant in our mind,  whether beneficial or injurious will be reproduced in our lives.

Manifest all the good things you need by entering the secret chambers of possibilities and living out of your imagination and not your history.

Make Your Vision Clear


One of the best ways to make your vision clear is to have a visual representation of it.  I personally find mind movies to  be more powerful than the traditional vision boards.  What is a mind movie?  It’s a collection of images that represent you having what you want or becoming who you want to be accompanied by a song that gets you in the mood of having your vision come true.

I find it to be most powerful to watch it right before I go to bed at night and then again in the morning before I wake up.  It ends up being like a mini video.  I typically select anywhere from 15-20 images so that it’s no longer than 2 minutes.  It has to be short, sweet, and to the point so that you’ll be inspired to watch it daily.  I use Microsoft Photo Story 3.  But you can google and find the software that best works for you.

If making a mind movie doesn’t fit into your schedule then make an electronic vision board using pinterest or Having the visual images and spending time each day interacting with them activates your mind and gets your subconscious mind busy doing what it does best…attracting, drawing and problem solving.

And the bonus is the visual images redirects your conscious mind from all the checks and balances and keeping it “real” for you. It takes courage to allow yourself to get swept away in enthusiasm and anticipation of your miracle unfolding. But that’s what faith is all about.

Decide what you want and go for what’s yours in this life. Leap outside of your comfort zone. Consult your higher self and get reacquainted with your heart desires. This is an abundant universe and we were created by an omnipotent, illimitable, abundant, resourceful, all-powerful, infinitely intelligent God whose ways are not our ways.

Trust and believe and  power up your imagination and get reconnected to an infinite source of Divine love, ideas, connections, favor, protection, resources, inspiration, etc. That’s where our true happiness lies…being at one with our Divine Creator and having unerring trust that someway somehow it’s all gonna be alright!

Nothing is impossible to him who believes. Make it a powerful imaginative day!!!

Cheers! ♥♥♥

What Does Your Mind See?


It begins in the mind.  The trouble with those of us who have not achieved our desired outcome and have not done what we can and ought to do is because we lack faith.  Our mental attitude is the cause of our trouble and the reason we have missed our mark.

There is no gimmick, no philosophy, no power in the Universe that can help me to do a thing when I think I can’t do.  And until I believe I can do it, it will remain undone. Before we can win in life we must believe in our power to win.  This my friends is much easier said than done.  Mainly because most of us avoid accepting responsibility for where we are in relation to the outcome we desire is mostly due to what our minds have been trained to see by us.

In order to achieve the outcome we desire, we must be confident in our expectations of achieving it, vigorous in our faith in ourselves, our divine creator, our skills and abilities. Lack of faith is the supreme cause of failure – lack of achieving our aim, our desired outcome.  We can never get further than our faith in ourselves.

The size of our faith indicates the size of the cables which connects us to our Maker.  The more faith we have the stronger, wider, and more durable are our cables making the capacity to receive divine ideas, favor, connections, endurance greater and greater. It is through faith we tap into the very source of life and begin to thrive, expand, and grow.  It is the key which unlocks the door to unlimited power.

What we impress upon our subconscious self, our estimate of our ability, our talent, our initiative, is what we will express in life, and is what we will re-present not only to ourselves but to others.  In other words, whatever we have trained our minds to see is what will be reproduced in our lives on every level.

When we train our minds to see our desired outcomes, we essentially are cultivating faith. Faith will enable us to transform impossible to possible.  Even when others cry “impossible” the man/woman supported by faith persists, and achieves their desired outcome.  Faith does not think or guess, it knows for it sees the way out.

Aneta Cruz says “Your mind is your greatest power, use it well.”  How are you using your greatest power?  Are you training it to see that you possess your desired outcome?  Imagination is the scissors of the mind ever cutting and trimming until the desired lifestyle emerges.  It is the part of the mind that needs to be trained in order to build our muscles of faith.

When you become grounded in faith, mental monsters will have no power over you, because your positive, affirmative mental attitude will bar them from your mind.  You will be strong through the consciousness of the God within you.  When a person realizes their kinship with the great creative Power, they cannot be anything other than positive, forceful, radiant, self-reliant, a conqueror of that which would otherwise drag him back or hold him down.  All the forces in the universe combine to help them reach their goal.

Train your mind to see the outcome you desire and have faith.




Imagination Is the Secret


Hello March!  Farewell February!  A new month a new challenge.  I love issuing myself a challenge each month because it keeps me on my toes and gives me something positive to target and look forward to.  This month I’m inviting others to join me again.  Many participants in last month Love Yo’Self Diva challenge experience personal breakthroughs and growth.

Thank you for all the positive feedback and how the challenge motivated you and helped you to soar and explore new heights in life.  This month I would like to explore and practice leveraging the power of the imagination to draw/attract desired results into our lives.

I’m trying something different this month and have created a Facebook group especially for this challenge.  If you want to participate in this life changing event, click here and RSVP for this event and you’ll be added to the group. This will prove to be a fun, exciting, and rewarding challenge. Let’s set our imagination forward and spring forward in life!

Cheers! ♥♥♥


Struggles, disappointments, difficulties are not meant to make us sad but to make us strong….for if we resist the urge to whine and/or complain, we shall bee given the strength to overcome all of these.
Life should be full of play, full of laughter, full of light and cheer. We need to become intentional about making it a habit of looking for something to be glad about and very soon we will master the secret of happiness.
Let’s just choose to be glad….that’s the name of the game.

Do It For You!


In this game of life you have to stay focused 100% on winning and doing it for you. Which oftentimes mean keeping your next move to yourself. Why? Because not everyone can see it for you because they can’t see it for themselves. Especially when it comes to pursuing dreams that require risk.

Most people are terrified to let go of the old, the familiar, the comfortable and zoom full speed ahead towards their dreams. The unknown the uncertainty can rouse fear even in the best of us at the faith game. It is amazing how our mental monsters rear their ugly heads to have their say in moments of silence, uncertainty, confusion, and/or chaos.

It’s as if the default programming is all things negative. I’m not quite sure why our minds can be so vivid and convincing about negative outcomes. Perhaps I practiced that vibration one too many times in the past and it thinks that’s the way it still needs to function. I don’t know. But what I do know is I’m determined to clean the hard drive and install new programming.

I’m determined to do it for ME! I’m determined to to be intentional about creating the life I deeply desire. And in order to do that I must be single-minded and focus with intense concentration only upon positive outcomes. I choose to do it for me!

Cheers! ♥♥♥

You Deserve the BEST from YOU!


Day 1 of my February challenge was launched with a smashing success.  I’m thrilled to see some of you are following the challenge via choosing4me on Pinterest.  I was so excited to see the new follows.  Thank you for partnering with me on this exciting challenge.

Today I was once again reminded that I deserve the best from me.  And it’s amazing when you start to be intentional about loving yourself, you discover all the subtle ways that you were not giving your best to yourself.

Even when I was searching for an image to include with this post most of the messages were about you deserve the best from someone else and to respect yourself enough to only accept the best.  But what about us deserving the best from ourselves?  Why do we accept excuses from ourselves about breaking the promises we made to us?

I got up at 4:45 am this morning to go exercise because  part of the daily challenge for Love Yo’Self is to move your body for at least 30 minutes and I knew if I didn’t get it in this morning it was going to be a different story by afternoon.  After getting it done, I said to myself, “Now why couldn’t you have been doing this all along?”

Why did I accept the excuses from myself and why did I allow myself to keep putting off taking care of my physical body?  It is a necessity to be good to oneself, to do everything possible to keep one’s health up to the highest mark.  And one’s health includes more than just the physical body.  It also means  keeping our mind stayed on victory and feeding it with right thinking.

If we want to win out (and who doesn’t?) we must enter the ring – the arena of life – with all the power we can muster, in superb health at the top of our condition, so that we are capable of putting up our biggest fight.  We can do this and come out with the sweetest of victories if we are good to ourselves, if we keep fit in every aspect of our lives.

Make it your highest priority to give your BEST to YOU in every way possible!


Cheers! ♥♥♥


Love Yo’Self Diva!


All of our relationships mirror our primary relationship with ourselves.  We give our best to our parents, our spouses, our friends, our children, our jobs, and our communities.  Now it’s time to give the best to ourselves.  I created a Love Yo’Self Diva! challenge for February in my private Facebook group.  And we’re all set to start today as our day 1.

This challenge is power packed and I believe when one commits to doing each of the daily activities that February will be a very productive month in which you’ll be left feeling more  cheerful, inspired, confident, and poised to make 2017 your best year ever!  While this challenge is geared towards the ladies.  It certainly will prove beneficial to my male followers as well.

If you’re interested in participating in challenge then follow choosing4me on Pinterest.  The details of the challenge can be found on the board entitled “Love Yo’Self Diva!” It’s never too late to start so if it’s late in the month still tune in and jump in on whichever day you’re ready to start.

Remember that our relationship with ourselves sets the tone for all of our other relationships.  So join me in giving your best to you because you of all people deserve your love and your best the most.  Cheers! ♥♥♥