Do This 1 Thing to Improve Your Circumstances

If you want it then learn to speak the language as if you already have it. Speak positively about and to your situation. Bless it with words of I have until you do!

Begin to become more aware of the words, phrases, and sentences you use when discussing situations in your life. If you wan to transform your financial situations speak and think in terms of increase, abundance, riches, maximums, expansion, growth, opulence, prosperity, wealth, and unlimited opportunity.

Not only do your words reveal the way you think, but they also affect the way you think. If 2018 is going to be your year, then align your thoughts and spoken word to reflect it as if you already have it.

Feel the Power!💪

Woohoo! A new year, a new month, a new challenge!!! Who’s doing this challenge with me starting January 1st? If you’re all in on Feel the Power challenge… post #feelthepower2018 in the comments below.👇

Get a New Mental Picture of Yourself

Today’s I Declare daily message reminds us that it’s easy to give up on our dreams. However, we must resist the urge to talk ourselves out of our dreams just because the “how” isn’t readily known to us.

Hurry and fear will instantly cut our connection with the Universal Mind; Hence, we will receive no power, no wisdom, and no information to help us actualize our dreams until we are calm.

Fear turns strength to weakness. The calm and balanced mind is the strong and great mind. The hurried and agitated mind is the weak one. Whatever you habitually think yourself to be, is that which you become.

It is the habitual, not periodical thought that decides your destiny. Dreamcember challenges us to use prayer and affirmations to change the habit of thought.

This month commit to cultivating the habit of consistently repeating the new thought of yourself aka your 2018 dream until it is the ONLY way in which you think of yourself.

Get a new mental picture of yourself. Repeat over and over the THOUGHT of your own power and ability until the things you desire are brought to you.

Turn on the Power in You

You are a POWER HOUSE.  There is a principle of Power in you, according to Wallace D Wattles, in which you can use and apply in a certain way and overcome all “obstacles” and master all circumstances and conditions and become a great and powerful personality.

In order to do this you must use every gadget within your grasp:

  • Health is Power
  • Books are Power
  • Self-will is Power
  • Imagination is Power
  • Meditation is Power
  • Reason is Power
  • Love is Power
  • Gratitude is Power
  • Prayer is Power
  • Kindness is Power
  • Relationships are Power
  • Faith is Power


No one can exhaust the unlimited, innumerable possibilities of POWER within him.  This Power is the basic fact of the Universe.  There is hardly anything you want that you cannot have if you arouse yourself out of inertia and turn on the POWER in you!

That which enslaves us all and causes so many failures in life is mental and physical laziness aka inertia.  The Power which is in you, is also in the things around you and when you begin to arouse yourself out of inertia,  things will  begin to arrange themselves for your advantage.

Our monthly challenge Dreamcember is an excellent time to arouse yourself out of inertia and turn on the POWER in you because it’s never too late to be what you might of been.  Follow Choosing4me FB page daily to participate in the Dreamcember challenge.


What Might You Have Been?

It’s so hard to believe that we’re rounding into the last month of the year.  I know it’s been awhile since I’ve posted but my life has been in a constant state of positive transformations the past few months.  I will post about it later.

Today I wanted to formally invite you to join our monthly challenge that my FB group Sisters On A Rise (SOAR) will be doing during the month of December.  It’s going to be a fun and exciting challenge and you’ll be so glad you did.

It’s time to make our dreams come true.    To prepare for the challenge you’ll need to watch this video and purchase I Declare by Joel Osteen.  See image for the guidelines of the Dreamcember challenge.  Then decide what’s the single most dream you want to achieve in 2018 and write it down on an index card.

We start December 1st!!!  So excited about this challenge and you will be too.

Cheers! ❤ ❤ ❤


Create An Emotional Blueprint

How will you feel once you have what you want? Do you know most of the time we are clueless what feelings we’re after when we desire something? Our manifesting tip of the day is to create an emotional blueprint for whatever it is you’re deeply desiring.

As Hicks often says we all want something because of how it will make us feel. So what does having what you want going to make you feel? Sit with your journal and brainstorm what feelings you’re expecting to get in return for achieving your desired goal.

Once you have your list of feelings then pick the top three desired feelings. Let’s say it’s passion, adventure, and fun. Then think of different things you can do each day to infuse your day with those feelings.

Why? Because Law of Attraction says like attracts like. And feelings are our honing signal which activates the Law of Attraction to draw experiences, people, things, and circumstances to us. When you’re doing your daily visualization remember to focus on seeing yourself feeling these feelings. Include them in your scripts and actually allow yourself to feel the feelings as you’re imagining having what you desire.

Let’s say your emotional blueprint for wanting a relationship is because you believe it will bring you feelings of passion, adventure, and freedom and it’s not right here right now for the taking then go out and do other things to generate these feelings and the Universe will deliver you more and more experiences to add to those feelings. And then you’ll look up and notice that the one you deeply desire is there beside you sharing in the passion, adventure, and fun with you.

Why? Because Law of Attraction states “that which is like unto itself is drawn”. Try it! Create your emotional blueprint for your desire today.

Cheers! ♥♥♥

Emit Your Own Frequency


In life we can allow what’s outside us to dictate and govern our thoughts aka be reactive. Or we can allow what’s inside of us to dictate and govern our thoughts aka be creative.
Far too often we are in a reactive state instead of a creative state. Whenever we allow external things to cause us to entertain negative thoughts, we put into action a poisonous chemical activity of a disintegrating nature, that dumbfounds our sensibilities and deadens our nerve actions, causing the mind and body to become negative and therefore subject to many ills.
On the flip side when we are in a positive state we put into action a healthy chemical activity of a constructive nature, causing the mind and body to become free from  many ills due to discordant thoughts.
The nature of our thoughts impact the frequency we emit and thus determines the kind of conditions and experiences with which we will meet; what we put into life is what we get out of life – no more, no less.
Either way whether we choose to live from a reactive stance or creative stance, we still are emitting mental frequencies that are as real as electric, magnetic, or heat currents according to Charles F. Haanel. And I wholeheartedly concur with him that we attract the currents/frequencies with which we are in harmony.
I don’t know about you but I choose to emit my own frequency and live from a state that is creative and intentionally draw to me the things, situations, people, and/or circumstances that I desire.  Join me in my next post when I will share a six step plan on how to emit your own frequency and raise your dominant vibration.

Make Your Vision Clear


One of the best ways to make your vision clear is to have a visual representation of it.  I personally find mind movies to  be more powerful than the traditional vision boards.  What is a mind movie?  It’s a collection of images that represent you having what you want or becoming who you want to be accompanied by a song that gets you in the mood of having your vision come true.

I find it to be most powerful to watch it right before I go to bed at night and then again in the morning before I wake up.  It ends up being like a mini video.  I typically select anywhere from 15-20 images so that it’s no longer than 2 minutes.  It has to be short, sweet, and to the point so that you’ll be inspired to watch it daily.  I use Microsoft Photo Story 3.  But you can google and find the software that best works for you.

If making a mind movie doesn’t fit into your schedule then make an electronic vision board using pinterest or Having the visual images and spending time each day interacting with them activates your mind and gets your subconscious mind busy doing what it does best…attracting, drawing and problem solving.

And the bonus is the visual images redirects your conscious mind from all the checks and balances and keeping it “real” for you. It takes courage to allow yourself to get swept away in enthusiasm and anticipation of your miracle unfolding. But that’s what faith is all about.

Decide what you want and go for what’s yours in this life. Leap outside of your comfort zone. Consult your higher self and get reacquainted with your heart desires. This is an abundant universe and we were created by an omnipotent, illimitable, abundant, resourceful, all-powerful, infinitely intelligent God whose ways are not our ways.

Trust and believe and  power up your imagination and get reconnected to an infinite source of Divine love, ideas, connections, favor, protection, resources, inspiration, etc. That’s where our true happiness lies…being at one with our Divine Creator and having unerring trust that someway somehow it’s all gonna be alright!

Nothing is impossible to him who believes. Make it a powerful imaginative day!!!

Cheers! ♥♥♥

Imagination Is the Secret


Hello March!  Farewell February!  A new month a new challenge.  I love issuing myself a challenge each month because it keeps me on my toes and gives me something positive to target and look forward to.  This month I’m inviting others to join me again.  Many participants in last month Love Yo’Self Diva challenge experience personal breakthroughs and growth.

Thank you for all the positive feedback and how the challenge motivated you and helped you to soar and explore new heights in life.  This month I would like to explore and practice leveraging the power of the imagination to draw/attract desired results into our lives.

I’m trying something different this month and have created a Facebook group especially for this challenge.  If you want to participate in this life changing event, click here and RSVP for this event and you’ll be added to the group. This will prove to be a fun, exciting, and rewarding challenge. Let’s set our imagination forward and spring forward in life!

Cheers! ♥♥♥

Lessons from It Works

I read a book last year entitled “It Works” by RHJ.  It was a really good read and I did practice for a few days what was recommended in the book and then fell off the wagon.  While tidying up my room, I came across the book  again.  And was reminded of the lessons I learned from this book.

As many new thought authors, he too promotes the premise “If you KNOW what you WANT you can HAVE IT”.  It’s a very short book and  I found it to be very encouraging and it definitely charged my batteries and help me to be optimistic when I employed the three practices suggested by the author.

We’ve heard it time and time again that if we can train our waking mind (the mind we use each day) also referred to as the objective mind or conscious mind to decide definitely upon the things or conditions we desire, then that’s the first significant step toward getting what we want.

However from my studies we have to train it in such a way that it sends subtle, non-resistant thoughts to our subjective mind or sub-conscious mind to accept and believe it is true and to go to work on our behalf to draw these things to us.  Most authors concur that somehow someway there is an inner part of man that rendezvous with a powerful energy that is capable and willing to orchestrate on our behalf to bring to us every earnest desire of our objective mind.

However, if we only do it occasionally, half-heartedly, and/or oscillate in our thinking then we do not form a perfect connection or communication with this omnipotent powerful energy.  We must earnestly, sincerely, and honestly desire certain conditions or things whether it is mental, physical, or spiritual.

I believe this is the most challenging part to keep our waking minds focused and locked in on the target.  It has such a tendency to vacillate which only serves to water down our intentions to mere wishes and renders this wonderful, capable power impotent to function on our behalf.

If you are earnest about changing your present conditions, here are  some lessons I learned from this book that I encourage you to employ to aid in the actualization of your dreams:

  1. Decide what you want – this sounds much easier than it is.  To me deciding means you’re willing to make it a priority in regards to your attention.  In other words you’re willing to devote the time to focus on what you want in a positive way.  I’ve discovered that I put forth a very distinct effort and energy when I earnestly want something versus a like to have.
  2. Make a list – write a list of the things you desire and prioritize them by order of importance to you.  And commit to reading it morning, noon, and night and give no direct thought as to how it will come to pass.  Instead tune into your intuition so that you will recognize when you’re inspired to act.
  3. Think of it often – throughout your day think often of what it is you desire and engage your imagination to form a picture of the desired outcome.  Most importantly keep it positive and do not allow negative thoughts to creep in.
  4. Keep it private – do not talk to others about your plan.  Keep your plans/desires between you and the great power within you that communicates and connects with the higher omnipotent power.  As mention in lesson 2, this higher power will unfold to your objective mind the method of accomplishment.  The trick is to let it guide you instead of trying to tell it how it must be accomplished.

I don’t know about you but I’m going to do this at least until the end of the month and see what happens.  I like conducting experiments to see what works and what doesn’t.  I think it will be a good companion for my “Be Intentional” challenge this month.  What do you think?  Will you try it too?